When a bowl is broken in Japan, it is put together with the cracks being filled with gold. Creating a beautiful lining. This is to emphasize the beauty in what was once broken they believe that when something has suffered damage and has a history, it makes it more beautiful and the same goes for human beings. Everything that you've been through doesn't make your life uglier although it may seem that way when we're going through it, it's up to us to choose to paint or struggle with gold and make it beautiful. You are not broken beyond repair, you can pick yourself up and become a better person from it because of the struggle that you've been through you can wear your scars proudly as a badge of honor as if to say 'look at what I’ve been through. I can get through anything life puts in front of me now.' Nobody has had a perfect life and nobody ever will. It's only up to us if we choose to paint or broken pieces gold and make it beautiful. Don...
You might think I’m so bad at this or I shouldn’t have tried that. But these thoughts turn into internalized feelings and might cement your conceptions of yourself. When you catch yourself doing this, stop and replace those negative messages with positive ones. You aren’t perfect. You’re going to make mistakes and experience failure in multiple contexts, Instead of focusing on how you failed, think about what you’re going to do next time—turn your failure into a lesson.